The Journey to Authenticity


Do you ever speak with a prospect while carrying on an internal dialog with yourself, asking yourself WHY they’d want to work with you or buy your product?

In some situations, do you find it hard to describe what you do with any energy or enthusiasm?

What’s sucking the energy and joy out of you in those moments may be that you’re feeling inauthentic. You might feel you’re overstating your value. You question why someone would want to work with you.

Experiencing yourself as authentic is key to your entrepreneurial success! Here are the stages you’ll pass through along the way to full authenticity.

The Journey to Authenticity Starts With BOXES

When we’re young, we can be labelled and put into boxes. We’re the special child, the athletic child, the good kid or the bad kid. Right away, we get labelled and pigeon-holed in our families.

In school, we also get labelled. You’re hanging out with the jocks or the nerds or the cute girls – again, the labels.

After-we get out of high school, we can feel societal/family/cultural pressure to follow a certain path.

This is what my path looked like.
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Does Your Throat Close Up When This Happens? (from the “What You Have to Give Up to Go Up in 2015” series)


Does this ever happen to you?

You have a new program or product to share with people. You’re speaking with someone at a networking event or a client on the phone. Your brain is saying “This person really needs to hear about the new program or product. Now is the perfect time! Start talking!” But nothing comes out of your mouth. The words are on the way from your brain to your mouth, and they get stuck in your throat.

This is another video and blog post in my series on what you have to give up in order to go up in 2015.

Here’s an example from my childhood that I remember so, so vividly:

It was summertime. I was about eight years old. I was enrolled in a summer activity camp. Our big activity for the day was to go to the pool and to jump off of the high dive board. I was absolutely petrified at the thought of doing this but I did not feel like I could say that to my teacher. She was a super nice person; but I just couldn’t get the words out of my mouth to say “I’m scared and I don’t want to do this.”
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Why Referrals Matter to YOU!


Are you consistently asking for referrals?

Are you consistently growing your business through referrals that you’ve received from happy past clients, current clients or colleagues?

If not, I want to share with you three reasons why referrals are so important for your business.

1.  Your ideal client tends to hang out with people who are just like them. So anyone they refer to you is also going to be ideal. Who do you most want to work with? Someone who’s ideal!

2.  When your past or current clients refer people to you, that referred prospect is already going to be in love with you. The “know, like and trust” factor is going to be present before they meet you.

Why? Because someone they know, like and trust…someone they believe in, has said great things about you. Plus, that prospect has seen the results of the transformational work that you did with that past or current client who’s referring them. So when that prospect shows up and says to you, “I was referred by Susie,” they are going to be about one inch away from already being ready to work with you.
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What You Have to Give Up to Go Up in 2015 – Part 1


Do you have a big goal for this New Year? WomanClimbingStairs

Do you want to substantially increase the number of clients that you have this year, or your income?

Do you want to have a bigger impact on the lives of your clients or team members?

If that’s you, then most likely you’ve been thinking about your goals for this New Year. You’ve been thinking about the actions that you want to take that might be different from last year.

I invite you to turn your thinking upside down and look not just at new things you want to add in but to also look at what you want to release.

This is the first in a series of videos about what you’re going to have to give up in order to go up this year.

Today I’m talking about the difference between your comfort zone and your growth zone.

One of my favorite sayings is, “There’s no comfort in your growth zone and there’s no growth in your comfort zone.”

These two zones are completely different from each other. Every second in your business you’re in one or the other, you can’t be in both.
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Leveraging Your One-on-One Strength in Networking

  • Do you have your biggest impact on people when you’re meeting one on one with them?
  • Is it really easy for you to introduce yourself to someone and immediately strike up a conversation?
  • On the other hand, is it challenging for you to walk into a room full of 50 people that you don’t know and find somebody to talk with?

If all of that matches you, then probably one of your skills is connecting with people one on one.

If this is you, then most likely the more time you spend with someone, the more they get to know you, the more likely that they’re going to end up working with you; that they become your client or your team member or perhaps they become a trusted referral partner for you.

This is a great skill and I want to give you four tips to help you leverage it even more.

First, if you’re not already in a smaller, structured, weekly referral-based networking group, I advise you to get yourself in to one as quickly as possible. This is the kind of group where your skills will really shine. Again, you won’t shine quite so brightly if you’re looking at groups where it’s like 30, 50, 100 people with that sort of cocktail party format where you just have to dive in, start talking to people and sharing your business card. Instead, look for something that’s smaller, that has consistent attendance, that has a structured format and is based on referrals.

BNI or Business Networking International is the most popular or most prevalent group and there are many others. I’m in a group with a similar format called Women in Networking here in North Carolina. We’re a weekly group that is based on sharing referrals and leads, with a structured format, and with attendance requirements. That’s super-comfortable for me.

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Cultivating the Habit of Gratitude to Feel More Peace

Want to elevate your mindset and experience more peace this holiday season?

Wow, is this a time when you can be experiencing a whole spectrum of emotions!

You can go from a Hallmark moment of happiness to thinking: I am going to kill someone in about five minutes!

There’s a huge amount of stress that comes up during the holidays because you’re with a lot of people you may not see very often, everyone has extremely high expectations that may or may not match reality; and you’re doing all your work during an extremely compressed time of the year. That all can lead to a huge amount of stress.

So I want to share a tip today about how to elevate your mindset, no matter what time of year it is, and help you experience more peace during this busy time.
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LIFELONG LEARNER: Leverage Your Learning in Your Business

“I’ve forgotten more about that than you will ever know”. That’s a phrase that I’ve often read in historical novels that people use when they want to put down someone else:

To me, on a positive note, that phrase sums up lifelong learners. You are so busy learning that you’ve probably forgotten more about one topic than most people ever learn on that same topic!

You’re on a lifelong journey to learn.  For you, the process is what’s most fascinating. There’s not necessarily an end point to what you are doing; you love learning for the sake of learning.

That’s powerful in many ways and it has some down sides as well. One of them is that you forget to share what you know with your clients and your community. I know for sure I’ve been guilty of this myself. I read so many books, I find this information so fascinating and then I forget to actually share it with people who need that same information!

Here are a couple tips to help you more consistently move into sharing what you know and believe me, you know a lot.
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Lifelong Learners: Three Questions to Help You Implement MORE

Have you had this experience? You’re at a buffet with a big plate in your hands and you think to yourself “I’m just going to take a teeny dab of everything”. By the time you reach the end of the buffet line, your plate is totally filled with way more than you can possibly eat!

Lifelong learners are exactly that way when it comes to information! You’ve never met a book or theory or fact that you didn’t find entertaining and potentially want to learn more about!

Being a lifelong learner can help you in your business.

  • Your passion for learning keeps you engaged. You won’t get stuck in a rut.
  • Your passion for learning keeps you enthusiastic about what you do.
  • Your passion for acquiring new strategies, techniques and ideas for your business will be directly applicable to your clients’ lives. They will receive the benefit of your learning.

Pretty powerful right?!
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How To Do LESS and Get MORE Done!


When you’ve got a lot to do, do you tackle that by working even harder and putting in more hours?

If so, you’re actually making yourself LESS productive. Learn how to break that cycle, so you work less and actually get more done on today’s video.

Is Learning One of Your Strengths?

Is your office full of books, CDs, DVDs or audios on your favorite topics?

Do you get bored if you’re not learning something new?

Are you on a lifelong journey of self-development?

If so, then you are a Learner.  You love learning for its own sake vs. for results.  How does this help your business?  Learn more in today’s video.